21 Questions To Ask A Guy
Questions are the most amazing things that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will most likely agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What’s the most way-out experience you have had in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?
And now let’s get a little risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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